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Addressing the Active Profile Issue with Tact First off, let me say that this guy’s “reason” for keeping his profile online makes absolutely no sense to me.

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Perhaps not nice or courteous but not unfair either.

It’s especially bothersome if his actions suggest exclusivity even if he hasn’t declared so in words…and yet it is still acceptable in my mind for him to keep his profile up, even in this case.

I get that idea and if he were actively looking to meet new people I could even agree…but if he’s only logging in to respond to new emails why not ?

His response actually makes me wonder if he even realizes that he could hide his profile.

Silly logic aside, I would ask any reader who has this issue the same thing I asked the woman who contacted me: are the two of you EXCLUSIVE and have you both made it clear that you are only interested in dating each other?

Until the conversation happens, I would say it is fair for a guy to keep his profile up.

In some cases, this could cause what he saw as a healthy, budding relationship to end abruptly.

I’ve had several readers write me they argued with the man they were dating to ask if I thought they had made the right choice.

For the last few months this has been by far the question I’ve received most often from readers.

I had touched on a similar topic last year in my post my boyfriend has kept his online dating profile active.

I even had one reader who had gave the man a hard time the day after their first date when his profile was still up.

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